Our stance no matter what streets we walk or where we live: life, she’s gooood.
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Life is good.
Paris As Empty-Nesters
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Note To Parents (Letting Go)
A note on letting go (to college freshman parents – now that I have a month under my belt). Maybe all it really means is letting in a different kind of love.
And that’s actually awesome because it means that while they are in a big season of growing and changing, we are too, (it’s our time, too — to growww & change, we gotta keep up!)…
At first, things will feel hard because we’ve had a certain type of [say, young vs mature] love for the last 18 years, but really nothing fundamentally has changed…
Where they live has changed dramatically (hard) and how they decide to grow on their own has, too (so cool this learning about themselves thing; something only they can do!).
But love (the base of central importance) is a constant. You will always “have” them, and they will always “have” you.
Rest easy, parents, and find the letting go maybe a little easier by letting a different kind of love in.
Let’s make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…
To the best of the rest of your life!
Life is good.
Hemingway’s Beautiful Quote
If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast – Hemingway
Josh cried leaving these doors. My time for crying wasn’t much later.
It’s a big new season in a new place and as Josh said so beautifully recently, “We moved Nolan into his Parisian apartment, he has orientation soon, and tonight is the first official night of him no longer living at home. “Home” is a term of art for us, meaning where the three of us are together rather than a place, and in that sense we have the opportunity of many home moments with our collective move to France and Europe. But, still, this stellar human will now lay his head in his own place, start university, and launch his ‘next’. Life is beautiful. Hard and soft and deep and fun. Beautiful.”
I couldn’t have said it better myself, yes to the many different emotions, with one of them definitely being a constant current of thankfulness.
Cue Nolan’s time. He was not only ready, but he’s already giving thriving energy. It was such a beautiful day moving him in recently and he is well on his way.
Let’s make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…
To the best of the rest of your life!
Life is good.
The Stars Aligned
The stars aligned.
We had been ready for years to move and explore again outside the US.
We loved living in Europe so much the first times (as a couple in our late 20s and 30s and also as students in high school and college), that we wanted to do it again. We had lived outside the US twice as a family, too, so there are those awesome memories.
A question like “Am I still growing personally & creatively in LA?” was something asked often lately (amongst other questions).
Cue Nolan applying to college both in the states and in Europe where last Spring he was between two of three universities abroad.
He eventually chose the university in Paris.
And it was then, in the kitchen (I’ll never forget), when I shared with Nolan that we would be moving — going to Europe, too. :))
He was psyched.
It’s our time, too, to live out another dream…to salsa by the Seine, to learn French again, to live in France, but also maybe in England and/or Spain…and, of course, to be physically close(r) to our son because that’s who we are.
There for one another if/when we need it.
But the stars. They really did do a thing:
We are empty nesters who are also parents of an only child…
One of us can work from anywhere and the other, after deciding on Europe, got a gig in London.
So yes a door or multiples are opening! Awesome.
But sometimes open doors have screens on them, or have knobs that get stuck. Normal. Happens. And we can fix those knobs, oil ‘‘em up.
It all hasn’t come without sweat and that’s what I wanted to share.
We still don’t have long-stay visas (no appointment available yet), nor are we finding the French rental market easy (at allll) for expats. Many hoops and almost impossible for those without visas in hand.
But here it is: dreams and what you’ve always wanted are worth it, you WILL figure it out. Dreams meant for us get driven by a different energy. Trust.
And we do… We do! (Again)!
**It’s romantic if you look at it that way. Not everythinggg has to fall into place for you to be happy. Forced to work or sweat a little bit is hot, too.
Let’s make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…
To the best of the rest of your life!
Life is good.