When I say I’m going on a vision quest this Summer and they say yes (the youngest of the two with some reservation about my safety, but, ok mama, ok), when I say I’m going out on a date with myself tonight and they say yes, go, when I say I want to create a big event and do it in two months time (wait, the venue just pulled out with a month to go) and he says you can do it, yes, when I well up missing those who have passed and they *both* put a hand on my back without filling the space with anything but my feelings (yes), yes to these gorgeous men.
I feel their love and most of all, I feel how the ongoing decisive and unapologetic go ahead I give to myself is the spark they feed from as well.
As mom, wife, giver, nurturer or forgiver, we might sometimes feel that taking for ourselves takes away from this other thing we’re really good at, but the truth (that may or may not have been told to us by grandmother or mother) is that the more we step away to feast on what feels necessary for our full expression, the more everyone is given what they need to enjoy theirs.
It’s magical how that happens, but it does. Everyone gets what they need.
What do you need this year? How can you give it to yourself first then feel the support coming in from those around you?
Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life!
Life is good,