Choose a life partner who is high fun and low stress, who is supportive of what you most desire to create in this life, who shows you every day how important your joy is to them and who speaks to you lovingly, even (especially) during the harder times.
No matter how fabulous, attentive, affectionate or committed they are, no friend, father, mother, cousin, husband, sister, grandparent, brother, son or daughter is in your life to make things ok.
You make things ok for you (or f’ing amazing) by taking responsibility for your evolution and for your daily peace and happiness…
They, all 10 on the list (or that one key figure in your life) may act like a cushion, but you’re the sofa…they may be delightful icing, but you’re the cake.
This isn’t called the bad news, it’s called the relief.
Your happiness isn’t dependent on how or what everyone else is doing or not doing for you (or where they are in the process of cleaning up their side of the street), it’s based on how you choose to be doing and how clean your side of it is…
Enjoying a relationship or asking someone to step up and grow with you is one thing (and/or making a decision to finally not commune with them if it’s clearly not the right fit), but making your life a daily roller coaster of emotions because no one is doing what they’re ‘supposed to’ is the opposite of living…
Enjoy your business, enjoy your life!
Life is good,
p.s. We will be closing the doors to the Ecstatic Experience Immersion day soon. So if you haven’t checked out what this full day in LA is about, you can click HERE to find out more!