Separating from Hubby To Stay Together (not what you think)

He’s my favorite. 

And…I have learned, as he has, that when we separate, we come back together in a unique way…a way that has helped us enjoy partnership for a long time.

I wanted to write an article years ago now about this idea of separating to stay together and never did, but here it is:

This morning we spin together and tomorrow I fly alone. In other words, when we walk down different paths and do something new, not with the other, we come back also newer, more open, more ready to create what we want to be a part of together.

This time I’ll go to India to spend five days participating in the 600-year celebration of Lama Tsongkhapa’s Nirvana with His Holiness the Dalai Lama, scholars, high Lamas, monks and global teachers where each morning at the monastery, we will hear HHDL’s teachings (feeling blessed always and now, too — a close friend is putting on the celebration and I received an invitation).

I wasn’t the girl who dreamed of getting married or having babies, but, they (he and Nolan) have both greatly added to my life in unexpected ways.

THEY are my favorite.

As is this:

It’s my quest (ode to my actual nature vision quest in July) to experience self more fully, my creativity, my spirituality (which equals = our sense of self), and heart and mind-opening physical and spiritual chosen challenges that do exactly that — that challenge (if it doesn’t challenge us, it doesn’t change us).

I want to type right now that I always want to come back to Josh and Nolan with the same devotion and passion that I have for family and connectedness but, that’s not actually true — I want more.

I always want more out of life, the physical and emotional/energetic one + will work/play for it… 

Let’s continue to do that as women and together, simultaneously, shall we? Let’s work and play for it!




[It’s cold in LA — socks].

Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life!

Life is good,




Michelle Ghilotti
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur 

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