Higher Calling Found HERE

Somewhere high in the sky LA to Austin, a note for knowing and living our calling:

 

The reason it’s important to develop ourselves (“to grow” as people call it), or, in other words, to create or meet a higher self, someone with a greater awareness of themselves and with a greater capacity to LET more go emotionally is so we can feel the higher calling that’s been placed on our heart. 

 

We each have one.

 

Yet, it’s incredibly difficult to connect to it if we’re constantly bringing ourselves back to the tarmac of small thoughts, disempowering words or revengeful (even in the slightest way) actions.

 

To reach this higher ground of meaning demands higher thoughts [of ourselves & others], higher words [“ “ “] and higher actions 

[“ “ “] (and specifically, the unification of them all). 

 

This is what’s called the high road. 

 

It takes you places, this road — places that can’t and won’t be bought with money or influence, but where ample amounts await with integrity, a clear conscience and heart-opening honesty (also known as the cousin of forgiveness). 

 

When disagreements or perceived problems with others come, we’re being asked to rise to the occasion using higher thoughts, words and actions; to this place where we have even 5% more each day of a 35,000 foot perspective. 

 

Growing or developing self means rising to the occasion known as the everyday. 

 

Because, purpose is not something to find (it’s yours right now and inside at all times), it’s something to rise to (we get plenty of opportunities throughout the mundane Monday to day).

 

What we decide to think, say and do in those everyday moments either creates the space or opening for that higher calling to make itself known a little more (shine its way through) or not….

 

It wants to. 

 

Trust that it always wants to.

 

Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life! 

Life is good,

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Michelle Ghilotti
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur 

Don’t Confuse Being Kind

Feeling blocked creatively or not feeling able to reach goals (or being plain unhappy), time and time again can come from this

Confusing being positive, a “light”, spiritual or kind with bending so far that other’s thoughts, words and actions take the lead in our lives.

The way we feel most free and able to accelerate higher calling pursuits comes through using that positive-mindedness, light, spiritual connectedness and kindness to say what we’ve thought about saying many times— to ourselves or others  in fuller service and deeper respect for and to ourselves. 

Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life! 

Life is good,

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Michelle Ghilotti
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur 

 

The Mushy Question The Greater Good Party Started With

The question I posed to him about a year and a half ago was a mushy one, so for those of you not into gooey love or public shares of affection, close your eyes: 
 

“…how can we use the love and mutual respect felt between us for more?”

Josh Mandel and I had worked together in advertising early on, had created a baby eight years after that and had started a grief “he said, she said” blog after Dino died (eight years after creating the baby), but it had been a while since we had come together to do more with what we had between us. 

There’s so much that can be done (TO be done!) with those that give you life.

Anyway, out of this question, the Greater Good Party was born. That’s the short of the long.

Tomorrow we fly to Austin to co-lead another GGP (our 9th), the new school, old fashioned house party that aims to help communities connect and deepen in relationship, while also moving people to take the purpose or legacy project that’s likely been on the back burner of their life and move it, finally, to the front burner.

For those of you who don’t know, the night is filled with song, poetry, speakers and meaningful conversation with some pretty optimistic people. 

As we travel around, help others plan GGPs, and more deeply understand what it means to do great good, one thing we’ve come to find is that in each city, the GGP is helping to connect hosts with their larger community (something most of us didn’t even know we desired until we have it) — with new friends professionally and personally.

Amanda and Matt, our Austin co-hosts/leaders, are new to the city and have 80 people attending (amazing response for them…lots of new friends and/or deeper relationships being created). 

Three days after returning from Austin, we host 50 people for a GGP, specifically, for the Transcendental Meditation organization here in LA. 

It‘s been some of the busiest months building and keeping MGI and family life going, but when I think about what this is doing, I can’t help but welcome lots more of it (as I type that, a hummingbird is playing outside my window).

I’m grateful to bountiful self-care lately (and — can’t forget this love) for giving me the energy needed to keep pulling life off. 

Austin, here we come! 

Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life! 

Life is good,

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Michelle Ghilotti
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur 

The Fire I’m NOT Putting Out (Watch For This In Your Movement!!)

[The above screenshot was from an email from one of the organizers of the TM group; it sold out in a couple hours Tuesday morning]


Since we started the Greater Good Party (our next in Austin in a week and our first with an outside organization, the Transcendental Meditation org days after!), I have received more emails, texts, social media DMs and phone calls (to give insight, recos or support on various topics or projects) than ever before.

~> It’s sparked something that I thought useful to share for those looking to be of deeper service, grow/skyrocket or evolve a current business or step into what you might feel is a higher calling.

It’s a practical and fairly simple something, but in the last decade or so, I have seen fewer and fewer people stay on top of this. There are simply too/so many ways to connect that many of us are in overwhelm.

But when we decide to follow an idea, especially when we’ve been persistent and surrendered or said yes to each detail that feels like it wants to “go”, there comes a time when the kindling known as the days we kept showing up and up and up helps to grow a fire…

Fire is good (we have to remember that), but in order to keep our energy high (aka take care of ourselves), as well as be/stay on top of the excitement we’ve generated in others, we must be able to keep up with the demand, or in other words, have a system or people in place to help us respond to the community that we are growing.

Simply put, this means exercising leadership and come up with solutions to keep it all going/glowing/growing.

We all need a process or the right people to help us keep the quality communication going. Success or growth of any kind (physical, emotional or spiritual) is so much about this ~ communication or completing the conversation started.

In other words, once we start the conversation, we are responsible/ accountable for it…

Saying yes, thanks, saying no, thanks, saying thank you but maybe someone else is better suited, basically continuing to create community + relationships. 

Sure, maybe you can’t respond to every social media comment or direct message and maybe some emails received aren’t relevant and there’s just too many of them, but the idea is to make the meaningful machine you’re building include a plan/process for more refined communication to those who have essentially helped you build what you prayed for / desired [and who now ultimately deserve, if not a response from, a response from someone or some part of your team!].

For many years now, I’ve been chatting with Josh about this phenomenon — organizations, personal brands, and businesses not able to keep up with the demand on the communication side of things (which I see as the gratitude side of things). 

In other words, when we complete the circle of connection, we are giving gratitude for the fire found in the belly finally catching up outside of that belly, out in the world.

We get to be grateful for it!

It’s honestly taken up so much of our conversation time — just how many emails aren’t returned by people whom I know want to be or are big players in some way or another. (In short, if you can’t do it, shift the model, check in again to see if this is truly the dream you wanted to build or not and/or hire someone to do the community building for you). 

On a similar note, I also see/hear people growing or evolving businesses or starting new side projects who are not enjoying how full their lives are ~ > ok, fair ~ (check out the difference between the busy life and the full life in my last post), but, the question for us tonight is, isn’t this what we longed for? 

Wasn’t the dream you were going for, one filled to the brim with this growing group of tremendous people, experiences and conversations?

Isn’t this the impact you most wanted to make in your part of the world?

We want what we want, but then when we get it, we hum that we have it. It’s part human nature, but the other part is forgetting that we asked for a beautiful full life — just like the one we’re living RIGHT NOW.

It’s good to check ourselves often so that more goodness can continue to roll in! Because that’s exactly what it wants to do…roll…in. 

Make happiness your business by creating your authentic brand…enjoy your business, enjoy your life! 

Life is good,

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Michelle Ghilotti
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur