Success comes by consistently being in the practice of choosing
your creative “problem”, photo by Sarah Deragon.
Happy International Women’s Day! What a perfect day to dance in the streets of Santa Monica (which I just did in honor of this important day), a day to remind us all that WE are the heroines of our own lives (it’s not the boyfriend, bank account, husband or body at a certain weight etc.) AND share a smidge of what transpired over the weekend (which had to do with being ~> the heroines <~ of our own lives).
I’ve been hosting friends, family as well as clients for half VIP days and attempting to sleep a bit since the all-day immersive Creative Heroine Experience went down on Saturday, all while allowing her gifts to more fully sink in. As the creator of something — anything — doesn’t this sinking in always take a bit?
What I’m called to share at the moment is this, part of one of the talks I gave:
•••The Creative Heroine = the woman who moves from problem to solution to express to the world who she really is.•••
“Creative control of your life: Think of your biggest and most “crazy” ideas as the chosen “problems” in your life that you get to create and choose and get out there over and over again to create and choose them (they, the genius or uber creative ideas, have already chosen you and many of them benefit the greater good, so, do.great.good.with.them).
Which of the ideas that have taken residence inside you are you willing to “struggle” for? Choose one and go. See it all the way through.
Because it’s only when you express your full(est) self through the ideas that won’t leave you alone that meaning and more of your purpose in life is revealed.
Because there will be other problems (those perceived or real) that come unexpectedly, like a loss. When you’ve made a practice or a habit (something that feels like a normal part of your life) of consciously choosing the “problems”/challenges/experiments/ adventures that you’ll fight for, the hard, outside of your control stuff, will hit if even 5% less hard. Still painful, yes, but you won’t suffer unnecessarily…
By leaning in and making the choosing of “problems” to solve and solving them, you’ll gain the stamina and confidence necessary to take on even larger worthwhile creative ideas in your life or work, as well as the larger societal, industrial and global problems that break your heart most.
Make it your mission to make the “problems” you deliberately choose bigger than those perceived or currently present in your life and you’ll really be f’ing loving yourself.”
Thank you to Arlan, our VC Lady Boss supporting female and LGBT ideas and voices, to Paige, our master sculptor who brought the house down by bringing us all way up, to Ashley, our vibe specialist, to Elisha creator of the first Black Joy Parade, to Christina R. who lit women up with her story of loss and rubbing shoulders with NASA through her visionary re-entry work and with Robert Redford through self care (:-)), to Ayo, badass singer-songwriter who tours with the best who graced our stage with a song especially created for CHE, Helen who opened minds around the power of the Akashic Records (she’s the cutest), Jenn, who as part of the It Takes 50 movement in Hollywood directed ladies on stage guiding them to get after their dreams, and to artists extraordinaire Chaim and Christina Dunbar who presented corresponding POWerful pieces Where Are the Men and Here Are The Women (the latter, I challenged CD to write for CHE — she slayedddd that challenge, I can’t wait for her to share it with the world or share it with you once we get our video work for CHE).
Thank you to Whitney, Emily, Susan, Kelsey, Nick, Marielle, Sarah, Eviana, Scotty, Justin, Mark, Abby and Cara for top-notch support (the last few at 72 & Sunny).
And, thank YOU, the attendees, for your infectious energy on 3/3 and for the love given that day and/or recently sent. Waves of change and impact, nothing like this out there, incredible, a true gift and ***refreshing*** were a few of my favorite comments as of late. Saturday did feel like a very purposeful shower to me, too.
I can’t wait to share more with you soon!
Enjoy your business, enjoy your life!
Life is good,
Success Designer, Brand Activator & Social Entrepreneur
p.s. I knew CHE would take off as the quality experience it is, I just didn’t know it would be this quickly. We were asked to put together one in NYC as well as another soon for the employees of the agency (our venue) where CHE was held. Follow your soul’s lead and you’ll always be guided to what’s next. xo