Life is good,
There's so much I'd love to share with you about this Summer's travels so far! (We have one more trip to Columbia coming up but just one day ago returned from visiting three cities we love in Europe).
As a family who is lovingly called "The Gypsies" by their parents, travel and the way it informs our creativity, connection and global citizenship, has always been really important to us.
I was born outside the U.S. and as a young girl and young adult, I studied abroad in France and Spain. Later on as a married woman, my husband and I moved to Holland and Mexico for adventure (aka: to learn more about ourselves through the new and unexpected).
Though we would love to move to yet another country at some point, these days we get our fix of adventure and the new and unexpected by traveling near and far a few times a year.
Today I'd love to share this photo of my son from the Mama-Sun portion of our European adventure (as well as a couple others below), in addition to some thoughts and tips for how to bring adventure into your life and business and…"how to love the lesson." I'll explain…
About Adventure and Loving the Lesson, Spain Edition.
Nolan zip lined in Toledo, Spain, a medieval town that used to be the capital of Spain.
It was a big deal because he was nervous and did it anyway.
I'm happy to report it was so bad that he went down a second time.
Before that new physical adventure, we visited the museum dedicated to El Greco, an artist from the Spanish Renaissance. It was our creative, art history adventure or lesson for the day.
Both experiences and lives — Nolan's and El Greco's — have much to say, so here it is:
Adventure: Just like apples, having one a day keeps the doctor away. That's what Nolan and I talked about in the taxi headed to our next destination. We discussed that living life like a game (except with matters of the heart) was key. I shared that looking at each day, no matter what he was doing, as the 12 or so awake hours he needed to experience at least one new adventure would help him suck the sweet lemon/orange/mango/apple juice out of life.
SUCK THE JUICE OUT OF LIFE.
It could be a letter you write to someone, even though you're a bit nervous or signing up for the talent show at school and walking away before you have a chance to cross your name off the list. Or, it could be, as you get older, I said, planning your next wild trip with a friend during a lunch break. Those examples may not be what light him up as he grows, of course, but I told him he'd definitely know what adventure was and meant to him. Follow those feelings and excitement around your definition of adventure now versus keeping adventure as something you do only once or twice a year, find things that scare or light you up and get after them. When you get after them, you GET a fired-up, purposeful life.
"You'll grow in confidence which will also make life much more enjoyable," I said.
¡Make your bucket list a daily one!
When we take life too serious, listening too much to that fear voice attempting to keep us safe, we live a serious life.
As I share with clients, you may have to trick yourself into doing the things that will bring joy and purpose to your life (there are all sorts of ways).
Similarly, it takes practice to live this kind of adventurous, confident in self life, however that's something everyone has access to ~ the ability to practice. The key is to start, and keep on keeping on.
One way to get ourselves into practice mode is by re-framing everything we do in life, love or business as experiences which we "get to do" versus those we "have to do" (part of the play factor or game).
You don't HAVE to do anything. Not at all. But you were given all your human bells and whistles (intellect, intuition, sense of spontaneity and adventure) so you could GET to do a lot of amazing things.
When you re-frame the situations in front of you, you get that much more out of the experience ahead and out of life as a whole, too.
The latter is one of my favorite phrases and truths because when we look at life with this lens, everything, and I mean everything, becomes an opportunity. Fear is an opportunity. No is an opportunity. Yes, is an opportunity. Even grief is an opportunity, as I've learned as of late.
Lesson: Every day, lessons will come. Emotional lessons, art history lessons, you name it. Instead of beating yourself up when the emotional or, in other words, relationship lessons come, at minimum, challenge yourself to be grateful they've arrived (you don't have to be happy about it, but gratitude acknowledges there's value in the timing and weight of the experience). Do see it for what it is ~ the chance to learn the next greatest lesson right now so you can move on more deeply, honestly, and with less burden, enjoying the rest of the adventure. When you learn the lesson the first time it comes around, you don't have to repeat it; something we forget, but that we can absolutely count on.
The lesson for both of us was both an emotional one, in Nolan doing what he was afraid of, and it was also a lesson in purpose, authentic expression and dedication to our brand of joy, learning from Greco's life…
It took 200+ years *after* his death for El Greco's body of work to experience what we might call "success." His dramatic, expressionistic style, rediscovered by romantics and French painters, but misunderstood and rejected throughout much of his life, was finally celebrated and became a great inspiration to new painters, sculptures and architects.
But, he was 'too much' for his time. And to "be too much" and express in exactly the way he did was his purpose. To be 'too much' is your purpose, too.
How could you do that more in the choices you're making in your business, writing, or speaking? How could you be too much and express to your heart's content?
The lesson here: Express, use your voice and show yourself and keep doing so, regardless if others celebrate you or not…
We do the opposite ALL the time. We stop ourselves from moving forward with our art, our writing, our business, our expression in whatever form that takes, because of what others think.
Nolan says do it anyway. Jump, dive, slide, two-step into it, but do it. Your ecstatic joy and success awaits.
Dedicate yourself to your art and to putting it out there with wild abandon every day and know, better yet, BANK on something wild happening.
Set your sights on both the adventure and lesson(s) you'll accept as part of the bold, expressed you today and you won't just experience ecstatic joy, you will embody it.
What one adventure will you create in your life each day?
What self-awareness, gratitude and permission will you tap into to allow in the lessons that wish to inform you, promising to, not only make you a better version of yourself in this moment, but possibly the next most innovative expressionist of your time?
Sending you all my Summer love!
Talk to you soon, couture creation you…
Life is good,
Life is sweet, and even more so when you have a business that fully supports, vs. detracts from family time during the week or weekend, and, hence, is a direct reflection of your values.
Having a spiritually-modern business I can take with me on my gypsy travels, and successfully run while experiencing the world and growing my most important relationships has been the priority since I started MGI 15 years ago, later moving and growing it in Amsterdam, Guadalajara and Portland.
When we go to Europe for the month of July and Columbia for two weeks in August, things will be running just as if I was still holding down the fort in LA.
Make a living (LOVE what you do) *and* have a life.
Making the revenue you want doesn't have to come at the expense of family (you and I both know that's way too expensive).
Learn the who, what, when, where and how of successful entrepreneurship and authentic branding, while being a conscious, devoted mom.
Ode to the sweetness, soul and ease that's possible. Hello to the Mom Mogul Success Society Mastermind:
Enjoy your business and enjoy your life!
Life is good,
If you're a woman, be one who speaks up and speaks her truth.
If you're a mom, be one who speaks up and speaks her truth.
If you're a lover, be one who speaks up and speaks her truth.
To be a fighter, a martyr, or woman who suffers quietly, is optional.
If you don't share your truth, nothing in life may ever feel true.
If you don't speak up in love, namely self-love, it will feel like you rarely ever receive any real, long-lasting and meaningful love from those around you (it may not be true, but you may feel like it is.)
In order to be the thought leader of your movement, you must first share your truest, most honest thoughts with those closest to you, all in the name of more deeply relating.
Your next largest business success comes on the heels of the awareness, the words and, ultimately, the connection you prioritize with your VIPs.
Make your bed there first.
It is and they are the heart and soul of the heart and soul of your business, whether you realize it today, or not.
As a business owner or entrepreneur, our most powerful brand or brand of thought leadership comes after we decide to be thought leaders in all our relationships, not just those with the public world, or with our clients, teams or business partners.
If you speak up and speak your truth in the name of all that is good in the world, for peace and harmony, while also deeply listening to others speak theirs, even when it doesn't make you right or make you feel all right, know you will have likely spoken most loudly.
Dear woman, mom, and lover of all things good in the world,
Love self and others loudly.
Do so by more fully using your voice and allowing others to do the same.
Enjoy your business and enjoy your life!
Life is good,